Top 50 Party Songs: Timeless Gems or Just Overplayed?

Here are last year’s most played party and wedding reception songs as compiled by Intelligence, Inc., a software service provider used by many D.J.’s around the world, myself included.  The list is dynamically updated and based on the number of times the song is requested to be played at a wedding or party event.

After hearing these songs countless times as wedding D.J. and observing how guests respond to them, clearly I’ve developed my own thoughts about this list.   Some of the songs I don’t have any thoughts about, and that’s OK with me.  Feel free to add your own comments at the end.

At number 1 is:

Black Eyed Peas
I Gotta Feeling

This song didn’t exist just a couple short years ago.  And here it is at the top of the party list.  College age types really enjoy this song and it always packs the dance floor.  That wasn’t the case when it first came out.  The first times I played it people didn’t seem to respond, but I guess it was just too new.  It’s typical Black Eyed Peas style.  It has a really catchy tune and lots of interesting rhythm changes. 

Don’t Stop Believin’

This song by Journey is really excellent when played at the end of the evening.  People enjoy standing on the dance floor and singing at the top of their lungs.  Also brings out the air guitarist in a lot of people.  It’s definitely a timeless gem.

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Lady Gaga Feat. Colby O’donis
Just Dance

Lady Gaga just seems too weird for me.  But I do love her music.

Single Ladies (Put A Ring On It)

“Single Ladies” obviously gets used as a bouquet toss song all the time.  One of my clients introduced me to a mash up version that mixes the theme from the Andy Griffith show into the song.  I REALLY like that version.

You Shook Me All Night Long

A real rock and roll classic.  Again, you can expect Uncle Jim to break out his air guitar on this one.

Bon Jovi
Livin’ On A Prayer

Another good closer (term borrowed from the world of baseball).  I always hear a lot of good singing during this.  This song mixes well after a slow song and really is a great feel-good rock anthem that leaves everyone in a good mood.  I love it!

Morrison, Van
Brown Eyed Girl

I insist that the Jimmy Buffet version of “Brown Eyed Girl” is much better than the Van Morrison recording.  Jimmy Buffet’s got the steel drums, a tropical feel and just sounds bigger.  I don’t get to be right all the time as evidenced by the fact that more people will dance to the Van Morrison version.  So be it.

Diamond, Neil
Sweet Caroline (Good Times Never Seemed So Good)

Always liked Sweet Caroline ever since my younger days.  I choose to play the live version of this song at wedding receptions.  It is slightly slower, paced better, has a stronger instrumental track and that wonderful, live audience sound in the background.  This is and always will be a real gem.

Cupid Shuffle

The most popular line dance of the last couple years.  More interesting and more fun to do than most line dances. 

Def Leppard
Pour Some Sugar On Me

Rounding out the top ten is a classic rocker.  This song packs the dance floor at the end of a night and I’ll have to say I haven’t grown tired of listening to it yet.

Love Shack

My wife loves this song!  I really like the sound of the B-52’s.  Once in a while I will substitute “Roam” in place of “Love Shack”.  I tend to like “Roam” a little better.

Black Eyed Peas
Boom Boom Pow

Jackson, Michael
Billie Jean

When you hear this song it’s hard to not recall watching Michael Jackson on that Motown TV special where he electrified us with the hat, glove and the seemingly impossible moonwalk.  Baby boomers love this song.  It’s not overplayed.

Lady Gaga
Poker Face

Again, Lady Gaga is just so weird.  Love this song though. 

Lynyrd Skynyrd
Sweet Home Alabama

Sheer genius of Lynyrd Skynyrd to cleverly add the words “Turn It Up” at the beginning of this song.  The song is recognized with the very first four notes of the guitar and people start heading for the dance floor.  Kid Rock was pretty shrewd to capitalize on that years later, don’t you think?

DJ Casper
Cha Cha Slide

Dancing Queen

I have never understood the popularity of this song.  I don’t know why it’s number 17 on the list, or even on the list.  Maybe someone can help me out with this.  Abba has done much better material than “Dancing Queen”.

Timberlake, Justin

Hey Ya!

Usher Feat. Ludacris & Lil’ Jon

This song has a great melody.  It’s a good transition song towards the beginning of a wedding reception that doesn’t offend or bother the older folks. 

Clapton, Eric
Wonderful Tonight

Hey, here’s the first slow song on the list.  Very romantic.  I like to use it towards the end of the night because of the lyrics’ mention of “time to go home now”, etc.  One of Eric Clapton’s best.

Don’t Stop The Music

Kool & The Gang

Without question, the most overplayed and worn out song on the list.  But people never seem to grow tired of it and always ask for it.  So I usually get the obligatory airing out of the way at the beginning of an event.  I think that a much better song is “September” by Earth Wind and Fire.  It’s impossible to be in a bad mood during that song, it’s just so incredibly happy sounding!  But that song is number 77 on the list so we don’t get to talk about it here.  Oh wait, I just did.

Usher Feat. Will.I.Am

Sister Sledge
We Are Family

An excellent wedding song!  Perfect lyrics for the occasion.  Women love it!  This is an all time wedding classic.  Probably impossible to overplay.

Sir Mix-A-Lot
Baby Got Back

Oh boy.

Twist And Shout

This song will remain an all time classic.  It’s easy and fun to dance to, and, of course, it’s the Beatles.

Tik Tok

Jackson, Michael

Everyone wants to hear this song because they like to do the dance moves from the classic video.  Unfortunately, very few people can do all the moves in the proper sequence and the song is 6 minutes long. But every once in a while I run into a group of people that have it mastered.  It’s a timeless gem.

Lady Gaga
Bad Romance

Here’s Lady Gaga again, for the third time.  Still weird, but I think I like this song best of all the LG songs.  The lyrics could be considered inappropriate for the typical wedding reception but the song is so well written and catchy that I find myself humming it on the way home.  Go figure.

Mraz, Jason
I’m Yours

An awesome song.  Destined to be a timeless gem.

Brown, Chris

Black Eyed Peas
Let’s Get It Started

This song remains interesting primarily due to BEP’s amazing ability to keep the beat of the song ever changing.  I think their best song, which did not make the top 50 this year, is “Imma Be”.  Very fun to listen to. 

Brooks, Garth
Friends In Low Places

Always a wedding classic.  The line about showing up in boots and ruining your black tie affair is perfect.  Sometimes I like to use this song for the traditional “Circle of Love” near the end of a wedding reception.

Isley Brothers

A perfect party song as made popular from “Animal House”.  I prefer the Lloyd Williams (Otis Day) version from the movie.

Flo Rida Feat. T-Pain

Apple Bottom Jeans, boots with the fur…etc.

James, Etta
At Last

A timeless gem, without out a doubt.  A perfect wedding song and I never grow tired of hearing it. 

Sinatra, Frank
The Way You Look Tonight

Already a classic and will always be.  It’s great to watch people enjoy dancing to this song. 

My Girl

A perfect timeless gem. 

Build Me Up Buttercup

This song has become way more popular in the past few years.  I never used to play it but now it’s guaranteed to put a smile on people’s faces.  A gem for sure.

Vanilla Ice
Ice Ice Baby

Jackson, Michael
Don’t Stop ‘Til You Get Enough

Brick House

Seger, Bob & The Silver Bullet Band
Old Time Rock & Roll

As good as Bob Seger was, it’s time to retire this song.  I like to substitute a similar song when possible.  Unless, of course, someone absolutely insists that it be played.  This one is on the overplayed list.

Loggins, Kenny

Village People

Overplayed, definitely.  But kids seem to like it and it’s always nice to make kids happy.

Bee Gees
Stayin’ Alive

There are other songs from the Saturday Night Fever soundtrack that I prefer playing.  “Night Fever”, “You Should Be Dancing” and “How Deep Is Your Love” come to mind.  But people need to keep this song alive because you need to know it when administering CPR. 

Armstrong, Louis
What A Wonderful World

This song is a gem.  Impossible to overplay.  Great lyrics and the immortal voice of Louis Armstrong is a perfect combination.

Taio Cruz

This song is too new to be overplayed.  It’s a great song to get the dance floor warmed up with and I really like it.  It only took a little less than a year to make it to the top 50 party list.

Unchained Melody

Righteous Brothers
Unchained Melody

“Unchained Melody” is the most romantic song on the list.  Most people can never remember the title of the song and don’t know how to request it without singing it.  Fortunately they don’t have to ask because I almost always include it on my special D.J. must play list. 

Well, there you have it.  The top party song play list of 2010.  Just missing the top 50 at position 51 was the timeless classic “Can’t Help Falling In Love” by Elvis Presley.  The list is constantly updated and can be viewed on our website at

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